2011
Thanks for your interest.
Donna Marie
JANUARY JULY
• Boundaries Defined (Part 1) • Are you ACoA?
• Boundaries Defined (Part 1) • Request to my Readers
• Cognitive Distortions – Intro (#1) • ACoAs: Deserving vs. Rights (#1)
• Cognitive Distortions – Intro (#2) • ACoAs: Deserving vs. Rights (#2)
• Cognitive Distortions – Intro (#3) • ACoAs: Deserving vs. Rights (#3)
• CDs & the Unconscious (Part 1) • ACoAs: Patterns of MISTRUST (#1)
• CDs & the Unconscious (Part 2) • ACoAs: Patterns of Mistrust (#2)
• CDs & the Unconscious (Part 3) • Healthy Trusting (Part 1)
• CDs & the Unconscious (Part 4) • Healthy Trusting (Part 2)
• CDs – Info & the Brain (Part 1) • Healthy Trusting (Part 3)
• CDs – Info & the Brain (Part 2) • Rebuilding Trust (Part 1)
• CDs – Info & the Brain (Part 3) • Rebuilding Trust (Part 2)
• CDs – Info & the Brain (Part 4) • Safe vs Unsafe People
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FEBRUARY AUGUST
• ACoAs & Boundary DISTORTION (# 1) • the Body & Emotions (Part 1)
• ACoAs & Boundary Distortion (Part 2) • the Body & Emotions (Part 2)
• ACoAs & Boundary Distortion (Part 3) • the Body & Emotions (Part 3)
• ACoAs & Boundary INVASIONS (Part 1) • Identifying Emotions (Part 1)
• ACoAs & Boundary Invasions (Part 2) • Identifying Emotions (Part 2)
• ACoAs & Boundary Invasions (Part 3)
• Boundaries & ACoAs (Part 1) • Infatuation, Sexual & Romantic
• Boundaries & ACoAs (Part 2) • Variation of ACoA Laundry List
• Boundaries & ACoAs (Part 3) • What about Emotions? (Part 1)
• Boundaries & ACoAs (Part 4) • What about Emotions? (Part 2)
• Boundaries – Healthy Source (Part 1) • What about Emotions? (Part 3)
• Boundaries – Healthy Source (Part 2) • What is Guilt?
• Unrealistic Expectations (Over) • What is Shame? (Part 1)
• Unrealistic Expectations (Under) • What is Shame? (Part 2)
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MARCH SEPT
• ACoAs & WEAK Bound – #1 • ACoAs & Emotions (Part 1)
• ACoAs & WEAK Bound – #2 • ACoAs & Emotions (Part 2)
• ACoAs & RIGID Bound. – #1 • ACoAs & Emotions (Part 3)
• ACoAs & RIGID Bound. – #2 • “Actions – Healthy Opposites” (# 1)
• Getting to Know You (Part 1) • “Actions – Healthy Opposites” (# 2)
• Getting to Know You (Part 2) • “Actions – Healthy Opposites” (# 3)
• Getting to Know You (Part 3) • Human Emotional Needs
• How ACoAs Boundary Invade
• The Relationship Continuum • Repressing Emotions
• Relationship STAGES • “They Did the Best They Could” (#1)
• Trying to Leave You (Part 1) • “They Did the Best They Could” (#2)
• Trying to Leave You (Part 2) • What ACoAs Know & Don’t Know
• Trying to Leave You (Part 3)
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APRIL OCTOBER
• Healthy Boundaries – Info (Part 1)
• Healthy Boundaries – Info (Part 2) • ‘Fear is the Absence of Love’
• List of Healthy Boundaries (Part 1) • People Should Treat me Better, But…
• List of Healthy Boundaries (Part 2) • Purpose of Es : Awareness
• Setting Healthy Boundaries (Part 1) • Purpose of Es : Communication
• Setting Healthy Boundaries (Part 2) • Purpose of Es : Decisions
• Weak Decision-making Styles (Part 1) • Purpose of Es : Prediction
• Weak Decision-making Styles (Part 2) • Purpose of Es : Protection
• Weak Decision-making Styles (Part 3) • Purpose of Es : Survival
• “What Just Happened”- Intro (Part 1) • Rebellion vs Compliance (Part 1)
• “What Just Happened”- Intro (Part 2) • Rebellion vs Compliance (Part 2)
• “What Just Happened” (30 Qs) • Recovery Thought for ACoAs
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MAY NOVEMBER
✶ BOOK VERSION of this BLOG • ‘ALONE’ – an ACoA Poem
✶ Inner Child Movie: “If You Believe” • ACoAs & Time (Part 1)
• Family Roles – General • ACoAs & Time (Part 2)
• HERO Role • ACoAs & Time (Part 3)
• Roles & Co-Dependence • ‘Controlling’ & Abandonment (Part 1)
• Satir’s LEVELER Role • ‘Controlling’ & Abandonment (Part 2)
• Satir’s BLAMER Role • Over-Controlling Ourselves (Part 1)
• Satir’s COMPUTER Role • Purpose of Es: Motivation
• Satir’s DISTRACTER Role • Types of Self-Control (Part 1)
• Toxic Family Roles (Part 1) • Types of Self-Control (Part 2)
• Toxic Family Roles (Part 2) • Types of Self-Control (Part 3)
• Toxic Family Roles (Part 3) • Types of Self-Control (Part 4)
• Toxic Family Roles (Part 4) • What Others Think of Me is …….
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JUNE DECEMBER
• ACoAs: Early Trust Betrayal • ACoAs Getting Controlled (Part 1)
• ACoAs: Lack of Trust (Part 1) • ACoAs Getting Controlled (Part 2)
• ACoAs: Lack of Trust (Part 2) • ACoAs Getting Controlled (Part 3)
• ACoAs: Over-Trusting (Part 1) • Backlash of Over-Control (Part 1)
• ACoAs: Over-Trusting (Part 2) • Backlash of Over-Control (Part 2)
• ACoAs Under-Trusting (Part 1) • Backlash of Over-Control (Part 3)
• ACoAs Under-Trusting (Part 2) • Over-Controlling Ourselves (# 1)
• ACoAs Under-Trusting (Part 3) • Over-Controlling Ourselves (# 2)
• LOST CHILD Role • Over-Controlling Ourselves (# 3)
• MASCOT Role • Over-Controlling Ourselves (# 4)
• PLACATER Role • Over-Controlling Ourselves (# 5)
• SCAPEGOAT Role • Price for Emotional Over-Control

Apr 21, 2011 @ 05:27:40
Alcoholism runs in my family. Thanks for the insight.